In fact - we've only made it away from the house for one overnight stay...and that may be all of the traveling we do until fall. We have some "Stay-cation" musts that we want to do before school starts, though, and I think we will get to several more before vacation time is completely over.
Patrick is THRILLED to be starting a new job next year. He taught for many years at his previous school, and really, really needed to move on. Thankfully, his new position is actually as a teacher in the school Eli will attend for Kindergarten....and is also the school that Patrick (and his older brother) attended when they were kids! He's going to begin working on lesson plans, classroom ideas, and paperwork soon...but in the meantime, it's a wonderful feeling to know that he has some great opportunities in the new school.
There's really not a whole lot to say as far as I'm concerned...other than the fact that I got into some type of fleas or mites in the woods, and have been dealing with an EXTREMELY large number of EXTREMELY itchy bites...though not as itchy as chiggers, I'll admit. I have had a chance to do a little bit of reading, which I didn't do nearly enough of throughout the school year. Most of what I've tackled has been light pop fiction, though I've also enjoyed a book or two from favorite authors (Orson Scott Card and Madeline L'Engle), and I have some "heavier" books on my list that I'm looking forward to...I may have to share some of the titles I've come across if they are as exciting as I've been told : ).
I am happy to say that the kids have been doing great this summer - for the most part. While we've had our share (and sometimes more than our share) of tantrums, arguments, and time outs - including one that resulted in leaving a restaurant before a waitress ever had time to greet us - the kids have been good overall.
|The kids - peaceably playing in Itty Bitty's sandbox|
|Eli braving a GIGANTIC inflatable slide|
Eli is participating in the library's summer reading project. He's 13 books into a 20 book project, and is doing GREAT! At the end of summer, I'll share some of the details of the books he tackled...so far, it's been a wide variety of both fiction and non fiction. He participated in our church's VBS, and had a FANTASTIC time...and was thrilled to be called a "Kindergartner" for the first time. He had some major behavioral issues that have surfaced this summer - most of which I think are due to the stress of the previous year and some developmental leaps that he's experiencing - but these seem to finally be improving. BUT...he's also wrestling with some big ideas and HUGE emotions. He's talking about it, though, and asking questions. As long as he's open with us about how he is feeling, and allows us to help him deal with his feelings, I think he'll be alright. On a lighter note, aside from some of the heavy thinking he's been doing, he's also spent a lot of time practicing piano...and has now begun to learn violin. He's also gotten back into working in the Life of Fred books (we picked back up with "Dogs"), and frequently begs to work on math problems. Everything from multiplication, so addition/subtraction (including carrying/borrowing), to very simple fractions and an introduction to functions have been sources of fascination to him. He's also found time to work on puzzles most days and to watch more than enough TV/movies (we're acutally watching a movie a day). It's been so hot, we've not gotten outside to play a lot this week, but hopefully, we'll have a break in the 100-degree weather soon!!
|Sunny - Learning the Balance Bike|
Sunny has begun to visit with her family each week, and will soon be able to visit more than once a week. She is the first child I've seen that, at her very young age, verbally blames herself for some of the things that have happened to her. We have been gently correcting her, and pointing out that it was the adults in her life that made mistakes, that she is important, and needs to be safe and healthy. She sometimes struggles with change, but as the summer has progressed, she has relaxed and her demeanor is much more open and cheerful. She seems lost or frustrated sometimes when encouraged to play on her own, but is really, really learning to entertain herself or to play with Eli. She has begun working on learning the balance bike with a lot more determination and confidence than we saw just two weeks ago. We've also been taking her to the pool, and she's really gaining a lot of confidence in the water (hooray for puddle jumper-style floaties!). She too, is participating in the library's summer reading project, though all of her books are being read aloud to her. We are really working with her on being able to pay attention to a short story and to understand very simple plots. For a child who is extremely verbal, her ability to concentrate and comprehend stories (either read to her or watched on TV) is very limited. We THINK we have her ready to go watch her first movie at the movie theater...so we'll make an attempt soon. In the meantime, we are going to continue to work with her on self-confidence and self-esteem. She is still somewhat afraid to ask for things that she needs (like a drink of water or help accomplishing a task), and often whispers so quietly that it's quite impossible to hear her.
|Itty Bitty - hanging out and enjoying the afternoon|
Itty Bitty is still the sweetest little baby, though he's definitely going through some seperation anxiety that takes the form of devastated howling and angry, frantic shrieking if we're out of sight for more than a split second. Hopefully, this too shall pass...right? He does now have a formal diagnoses of mild-moderate cerebral palsy. If someone had told me this in October, I'd have thought they were joking...but I've learned a LOT and wish now that I'd recognized his subtler symptoms earlier than I did. But...neither of his caseworkers, pediatrician, foster care worker, or daycare provider recognized them either, so I'm trying not to be hard on myself. He recently underwent an MRI, and will undergo a swallow study soon. He will continue to receive OT, and will also begin receiving PT and Speech (for both language and feeding). We've registered at our local play therapy group, too, so he will receive services from them starting this fall. But, of course, Itty Bitty is always full of surprises. This week, he began saying his first word..."mama" (he sometimes does say "oma" too). Then a couple days ago, he accidentally got yogurt on his hands, and began to lick them...and discovered self-feeding. Today, he even managed to feed himself quite a few "baby puffs". Next, as if that wasn't enough, he laid another surprise on us...today, out of the clear blue, he pushed himself up onto his hands and knees...and began to crawl!! The absolutely cutest part is that a couple of the times he crawled were so that he could get close to the kitty (Sadie) to touch her. At this point, he can only go very short distances, and he has obvious struggles with his coordination, he is definitely crawling on hands and knees, and he will probably get stronger very quickly. This is the same child who has screamed and cried in OT when the therapist has been trying to get him to even ATTEMPT movement on his tummy (other than pivoting). In a legal update, there's absolutely no new news in his case...we are still in limbo, and will be for a least another month (probably two or three).